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11.14.26 – Toxic Thinking

The Jacob and Esau story is the story of two nations, two groups of people (Gen. 25:22–23). People in general are divided into two groups. I am not talking about personality groups, because we know there are at least sixteen of those. The two groups of people include those who are open to change and willing to change in order to follow God more closely, and those who are set in their ways and refuse to budge. When Esau was born, he was born like a full-grown man (Gen. 25:25), and throughout the entire story of Esau—from birth to death—he never changes; he is set in his ways. Jacob, on the other hand, is born as smooth as a baby's bottom, and his life is full of change. The question I went to bed asking myself last night is: which one am I? And frankly speaking, there are some areas where I am stubborn, and other areas where I am completely open to change and growth... I am working on both. People are completely awesome. I have comically used a strange paradoxical statement in my ow...

11.13.26 – Being Authentic

The Jacob and Esau story can leave us scratching our heads. Who is who? Do clothes make the man? Sometimes it is hard to figure people out. How do we authentically live, authentically for real? In this day and age—like my client who has not paid the full amount for my work—it is not as easy as it sounds. Authenticity goes against every fear, worry, and anxiety of our social compulsions for acceptance, and our ego's constant fear of being exposed and demolished... that is really scary! It usually takes a few years of seasoning in this world before we come to grips with not allowing society to determine our course of direction. If you are in that boat already, then the following thoughts will be a review of your life journey. If you have not confidently arrived YET, these thoughts may propel your courageous ( chazak ) button to be pushed a little more often. The most important concept to living authentically is... own your own goobers. Quit making excuses. If you blew it, admit it. I...

11.12.26 – Life Is Complicated

Life is complicated! Family can be even more complicated! Have you ever noticed that the entire book of Genesis, the foundation of our faith, is about broken, dysfunctional families and the attempt to restore them over time? Most failed. Some kept it at bay. Others made progress, all the way to Joseph. Challenged families... I do not think anyone is exempt from this reality. However, if you are from the "Leave It to Beaver" household, then I want to congratulate you, and please keep modeling the ideal, and the rest of us will catch on :-) All of life is predicated on the first few years of our development and what philosophies have been imparted into our lives through the formative years, even without our choosing. The "torah" (instructions) that we were reared in, whether Scriptural or not, have formulated a lot of our current responses to challenges, stress, belief, and partly to our destinies. With every passing week in our Torah studies through Genesis, we find ...

11.11.26 – It's a Heart Issue

In this week's Torah portion, we find a conflict between two brothers who represent two nations, which ultimately points to the current and future redemption of all mankind—the ascension of one and the demise of the other (Mal. 1:4). Within our own lives, we probably have the same conflict. Let me show you. 🤔 Proverbs 3:5–6 tells us to trust in the Lord with all our heart and lean not on our own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will direct your path. Jeremiah 17:9 tells us that "the heart is deceitful above all things and it is incurable. Who can know it?" How does this work? How can I trust the Lord with something that is deceitful? Let us look at the latter and then address the former. We do not think of the heart as an inside scheming deceiver. After all, we know ourselves pretty well, do we not? We know when we lie and when we tell the truth, so why does Yahweh (He is the One speaking here) contradict our own conscience? We view the problem mor...

11.10.26 – It's Time to Be Happy

We live in a world of violence, hatred, and offense at every intersection of life. It is just as Yeshua said: "As it was in the days of Noah and Lot, so will it be in the coming of the Son of Man" (Luke 17:27–28). He could have also said, "As it was in the days of Jacob and Esau..." Historically, it was a time when self-centeredness was rampant. As in the days of the judges, men were doing whatever they saw was right in their own eyes (Judg. 21:25). Self-centered and independently directional lifestyles are two states of being that do not lead to happiness. Ask Esau 🤔 Yeshua's advice: "Happy are the peacemakers, for they shall be called the sons of God" (Matt. 5:9). Applied in hindsight, this advice could have solved many problems. These people are filled with joy. They are bringing peace to warring parties. Wait a minute! Is not the one standing between two warring parties the one who gets shot at by both sides? It is another paradox in the making! W...

11.9.26 – Hide and Seek

Where did he go (Gen. 22:5, 19)? Abraham said that he and Isaac would go and worship together and that they would come again (Gen. 22:5). After the Akedah, only Abraham comes back (Gen. 22:19). Where did Isaac go? Why does he not show again until after the servant finds a bride for the son (Gen. 24:62–67)? Chapter 23 has Abraham mourning the death of Sarah in Hebron. The servant is in Haran, at Laban's house, procuring a bride for Isaac. Where was Isaac all this time? Strangely enough, he is at the refuge well of Hagar and Ishmael—where God sees me,  Be'er Lachai Roi  (Gen. 24:62)—a long way from anything. Why was Isaac there? Why did he not return with Abraham? Why was he not with his mother? Why was he not with the servant? So many questions! The three mentions of this well give us insight (Gen. 16:14; 24:62; 25:11)! When Hagar the stranger—who was despised ( hallel , treated with little value)—runs away from Sarai (Gen. 16:1–16), she meets the angel at the well of the God w...

11.8.26 – Not Too Late

When Yeshua was asked the question, "What is the greatest commandment?" He responded with an introductory statement of the  Shema : "Hear, Israel, the Lord our God is one Lord, and you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your might. And the second is like it: you shall love your neighbor as yourself..." In the passage, Yeshua is quoting from Deuteronomy 6:5. Moses continues: "And these words which I command you this day shall be in your heart, and you shall teach ( shinan ) them diligently to your sons, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house and when you walk by the way and when you lie down and when you rise up" (Deuteronomy 6:4–7). We are five weeks into our studies in the book of Genesis, and for husbands toward their wives and parents toward their children, it is a good reminder that God commands us—specifically parents—to teach His instructions to our children. Let me say that again. God comman...

11.7.26 – No Laughing Matter

Sarah said, "God has made laughter for me; everyone who hears will laugh with me." (Genesis 21:6) Have you ever considered why Peter lists Sarah as a heroine of the faith (1 Peter 3:6)? With all that we have learned about her, it seems that her life of "grim realism" is more accurate than Peter's praise. Betrayal, abuse, vengeance, revenge, anger, frustration, misunderstanding, and humiliation seem to be the proper words to describe her—certainly not submissive, dutiful, or a role model of godly obedience. But perhaps we have not really heard the story. Perhaps we are so familiar with the narrative that we did not hear the cry inside—the deeper reality beneath the common human reactions to the situations Sarah had to endure. When God finally addresses her concern—not having a child of her own—the famous "laughter" passage is engraved on our recollection of Sarah. But what we need to do is enter into Sarah's thought if we are going to really know wh...

11.6.26 – A Babylonian Bride

Jeremiah commanded the Israelites to build houses, plant gardens, eat their fruit, marry, and have children and grandchildren while they were exiled in Babylon (Jer. 29:5–7). Obviously, no one is in the Land under the visible authority of Messiah Yeshua today, but regardless of where people live physically, they are in exile—or a form of exile—under the spiritual, political, and financial Babylonian system. Finding the right spouse in a Babylonian environment is not impossible, and it is very likely, based on Jeremiah's exhortation. The virtuous woman of Proverbs 31 is most frequently associated with the Moabite woman Ruth; there is more. She personifies wisdom, and she makes an incredible wife, even with her pagan background and cursed nation. Her life has both a physical and a spiritual reality. Those who become the bride of Messiah display these characteristics. These characteristics summarize the great women and men scattered through Scripture, giving us a collective picture of...

11.5.26 – Did You See What I Saw?

Whether you see things in Scripture from a Hebrew perspective or from a Greek perspective... it is true in your eyes. The lenses, like glasses, will determine how you view God, life, and its circumstances. Recently I was visiting with a person, and our discussion took us to how God works all things out for the good of those who love Him and are called according to His purposes (Rom. 8:28; Gen. 50:20). No matter which perspective or lenses you wear (Hebrew or Greek), this statement rings true. Understanding how God "causes" us to go astray from His ways (Isa. 63:17) is one of those realities. "Why, Lord, do you make us wander from your ways and harden our hearts so we do not revere you? Return for the sake of your servants, the tribes that are your inheritance" (Isa. 63:17). You may want to read that verse again :-) Your viewpoint will determine a lot about how you read Scripture and how you understand the workings of God. Our first reaction to a statement like this ...

11.4.26 – Guard the Seed

  In a woke world of "anything goes," if we get away from the purity of our roots and GMO our existence with new terminology to guide us, we will find that the fruit of our lives will not reproduce generation after generation. And before you know it, our existence will be no more. Hence, the concept of the seed and its fruit was established on the third day of the creation story (Gen. 1:11–12). The origin of an established word is the foundational bedrock of everything that is built on it. If the foundation shifts or is destroyed, so too will everything that is built on top. Yeshua, the Word made flesh (John 1:14), reminds us that the seed is the Word of God (Luke 8:11). Since the time of Adam's expulsion from the Garden of Eden, the battle between the flesh and the spirit—God's people and the enemy—has always been about the seed (Gen. 3:15). And though the fruit of the seed may look slightly different growing in different types of soil, in different areas of the worl...

11.2.26 – Dysfunctional at Its Best

Election season is upon us. Who will run our country for the coming years? Democrats? Republicans? Hopefully, the people who shine light on the path of the just (Prov. 4:18). The mudslinging is at an all-time high. It is not just at the candidates, but now, from the left, it is at all the Trump supporters. Wow. What will we get for the next season? I do not know, but I know I am focused on Jeremiah 33:25–26, John 8:39, and Psalm 1, while surrendering to Daniel 2:21! If we have learned anything these past months of political rhetoric, we have seen that life is complicated! Family can be even more complicated! Have you ever noticed that the entire book of Genesis, the foundation of our faith, is about broken, dysfunctional families and the attempt to restore them over time? Unfortunately, in the process, most failed. Some kept it at bay. Others made progress, all the way to Joseph. Challenged families... I do not think anyone is exempt from this reality. However, if you are from the ...