12 23 25 – A Very Subtle Clue

Sometimes, it doesn't take a whole lot of words to say a whole lot of things. With every statement we make, there is usually a lot of history attached to those phrases. As Ricky Ricardo would say on I Love Lucy, "Let me 'splain :-)."

Throughout the book of Genesis until our modern day, favoritism and hatred have run rampant through God's family in biblical history. If you're like me—and I'm sure you are, because we are hooked on phonics—we have a tendency to read over material rather quickly, missing significant details. Consequently, we don't experience the emotional impact in the text and end up with a Sunday School version of the text: theologically correct, possibly, and emotionally impotent, usually!

Currently, we are going through the incredible story of Joseph (Gen. 37–50). At one point in the story—this week's Torah portion, Vayigash ("and he drew near")—there is a two-word statement that only Sherlock Holmes himself would detect. It is when Judah is standing before the second most powerful man in Egypt, Zaphnath-Paaneah (Joseph). Judah is pleading that Benjamin not be forced to come to Egypt. In his speech, he reveals an incredibly dysfunctional family. Describing his father, Jacob, he says:

"My father said to us, 'My wife bore two sons'"
(Gen. 44:27).

Did you see what Sherlock saw? Jacob told his own children that he had one wife—the wife of the two sons who mattered to him. Joseph and Benjamin count. The others don't. Double ouch!! In fact, Jacob does not even acknowledge that their mothers were also his wives. As far as their father is concerned, the other ten boys are not part of the family—illegitimate at best. And who is really to consider how long they left Simeon in prison while they were eating up the grain provided by Joseph? Triple ugh!

And he turned himself about from them, and wept; and returned to them again, and communed with them, and took from them Simeon, and bound him before their eyes.
(Gen. 42:24)

Months later...

And he said, Peace be to you, fear not: your God, and the God of your father, hath given you treasure in your sacks: I had your money. And he brought Simeon out unto them.
(Gen. 43:23)

There is a lot of "theology" in there, but even more so is the incredible emotion! Can you imagine what life was like in this "family"? We already know that Jacob hated (sane) Leah (Gen. 29:31). Have you ever wondered why he hated her so much? His hatred lasted his whole life. Why? She stole his true love, Rachel, from him on his wedding night. Did she? So many details behind the scenes! Life is not always what it appears to be. What we do know is that she did not reveal herself to Jacob during their first night together until the morning light. Oh my, the emotional threads that just a couple of words unveil. Leah pretends to be someone else, just as Jacob pretended to be someone else. She mimics Jacob's deception. The deceiver is deceived. No wonder Jacob hates her. She is him (Rom. 2:1–4, 21–23).

Ah, hatred of self is projected onto another… yikes (2 Sam. 12:5–7; Ps. 50:16–20; Matt. 7:1–5; 23:29–31; John 8:7–9; take the time to read these verses please :-)! Now the emotional tension of this fractured family helps explain why the sons of Leah hated the children of Rachel. Now we can see one reason why they had no remorse in their plan to kill Joseph, throw him into the pit, or sell him as a slave, and then infer to their father that he was killed. Oh my, the pain of family life! All in one tiny phrase: "my wife."

And now one more Sherlock Holmes Hebrew clue. Notice that Laban brought Leah to him, just as God fashioned a woman and brought her to Adam (Gen. 2:22). Just as Adam's ezer kenegdo ("helper opposite"), later named Eve (Havah), was meant to be a helper opposite—to disrupt his self-contained tranquility of aloneness—so too was Leah brought to Jacob. She forces him to see himself in the mirror; the hardest job of every ezer kenegdo. And as Sherlock's assistant noticed, ironically, and without filling in every detail of the story, it is amazing that our Messiah, Jesus/Yeshua, does not come from the loved woman (Rachel) but from the rejected woman (Leah). Brilliant deduction, Watson!

Love and hatred are powerful emotions! With the simple phrase "my wife," the spiritual Sherlock Holmes reveals a whole set of painful emotions, but out of them comes the Messiah (Rom. 8:28) and the seed for us to become conformed to the image of His dear Son (Rom. 8:29).

Shalom,
Alan

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